Central Plateau, North Island

Central Plateau, North Island
View from a friend's farm

Thursday, 17 March 2022

March 17th, A special Day

 St Patrick's Day, March 17th, Celebrated world wide for many reasons. 

But to have a Birthday on that day is extra special. 

Many Happy Birthday Wishes, Ralph, from all of us up North. 

Closer to home, in our hearts, but a lot further in distance,  in Otago, is our son-in-law, Ralph. We met him for the first time on TV, with Miriama Kamo and Paul Hobbs, a 20/20 documentary  called " Dogged Determination" , filmed on the farm down south and at the dog trials there. Up to that time, we knew someone was somewhere, but WHO???!!!

This is at an Outdoor Concert, in Otago, in 2009. 


In 2020 the Waitahuna Collie Club held a surprise party, but the real reason was to honour  three former Club Presidents with Life Membership

Ralph Brown with Rogue, then Roger Tweed with Strike and his brother John Tweed with Merv.

Together they had contributed 110 years of combined service. Families and friends had gathered, and then the men thought this was a little more than an ordinary evening when even extended family members were there.



 Dogs have always been a huge part of Ralph's life, and he  has participated in many sheep dog trials.  Indeed, that was where he met Kaz, when he was travelling to the North Island for an event. I think he managed to visit  on the return journey to Otago, not sure where the dog stayed!!!

That Irish Pub in Picton , the beginning of their life together.

The next photo was my attempt at trying  OOB, or Out Of Bounds Photoshop editing.

Ralph with one of his earlier dogs.




Life in Otago is  tough in the winter, guess the thought of a wet snowy paw on your face is not so welcome.




There was an early heavy snowfall that winter, but it didn't deter the Irish Snowmen from enjoying a drink or two on the verandah.




Fast forward to March 3rd, 2018.The day we had all been waiting for, their wedding  on the farm. 

A  wonderful day, typical southern hospitality, and although we knew only the family, everyone else recognised us as parents of the bride. I contributed as standing in for the " Father of the Bride Speech" Hugh was reluctant to stand up there, so I carefully  worded  and then printed out a short version. I have been told I talk like I write, LOTS, so thought I should carefully limit my time. The night before the wedding, Ralph's brother  Andrew read it and replied " I think you can embellish this quite a bit more" So I did ; The Best Man enlightened us with many highlights from over the years, then it was the Groom's turn.
Ralph gave the most amazing speech, with all of us laughing so much. 




Needless to say, we are so happy that on the 17th March,  on your birthday, you will  celebrate in true Southern Style,

I think the day is taken up with the local Sheep Dog Trial preparations for the coming weekend, but I did hear a whisper of some beers, and more at the end of the day . 
Enjoy the day Ralph, maybe another year when Covid-free travel is safer, we can join you  in the Far South .
Quotation of the day , author unknown,

" Families are the compass that guides us.
They are the inspiration to reach great heights, 
and our comfort when we occasionally falter."

Greetings from Jean.

11 comments:

KB said...

Happy birthday to Ralph! What an amazing day to be born. I'm so glad that he married Kaz and is part of your family.

Susan Heather said...

Happy Birthday to Ralph. It doesn't seem like four years since they got married. I remember it looked a lovely wedding. Hope you and Hugh are both keeping well and away from Omicrom.

eileeninmd said...

Happy Birthday to Ralph! Wonderful photos, I love the cute dogs.

Happy Saint Patrick's Day to you! Take care, have a great day!

Carol Mattingly Photography said...

Such an uplifting story. I loved every bit of it. And Luck o' the Irish to ya Jean! Happy St. Patrick's Day! Carol

Mystic Quilter said...

Wonderful post Jean and thank you so much for sharing with us, it's been a delight to read about your son-in-law and his history with the sheep dog trials, not forgetting of course his marriage to Kaz!!
I do hope that before long you will be able to travel down South to visit with them once again, that will be some special trip!

Our photos said...

Well, that's quite a history !

Inger said...

A guy who likes dogs and seems to be surrounded by them, is a good guy for sure. Happy Belated Birthday to Ralph.

Lori Skoog said...

Sweet! Ralph sounds like a great guy and I love his relationship with dogs. Thank y ou for sharing!

Eggs In My Pocket said...

Happy Birthday Ralph, this was such a great post!

Fundy Blue said...

I hope that Ralph had a great birthday! He looks like he's lots of fun. I love to watch sheep dogs at work, and their handlers too. Dongs liking a person is always a good personal reference. Hugs to you and Hugh!

Jenn Jilks said...

Family IS important. The kids are coming for a sleepover. I sure miss them. I'm a bit leery of COVID, but.
I don't know how I missed this post. I've been a bit scattered!